Melissa McGraw, Director of Counseling Services at Safe Passage
What is Human Trafficking?
In June several domestic violence staff attended a training on human trafficking in Springfield. Domestic violence and rape crisis centers are seeing more and more victims of human trafficking entering shelters or seeking counseling services. And, yes, trafficking is occurring in DeKalb County.
Human trafficking may involve either sex trafficking or labor trafficking. It includes recruiting, harboring, or obtaining a person by force, fraud, or coercion for the purpose of involuntary servitude or the sex trade. There is an intersection between domestic violence and trafficking in that survivors of trafficking may be trafficked by an intimate partner or family member. Contrary to popular belief, victims of trafficking are not always immigrants from other countries. Victims of trafficking may not immediately identify that they are being trafficked. Advocates and counselors are learning to ask specific questions to help identify if their clients are not only victims of domestic violence or sexual assault but also may be victims of trafficking.
Trafficking survivors often present with significant trauma histories and symptoms as a result of their traumas. The counseling staff have worked to help these clients identify and process their feelings of shame and betrayal related to being trafficked by someone they thought they trusted and loved. This may be a long-term process that also involves connection to case management and legal services.
As a result of this training, Safe Passage has staff who are more equipped to identify and meet the unique needs of trafficking survivors.
If you’d like to learn more about trafficking and how to recognize and support survivors OR if you think you may be a victim of trafficking, call us 24/7 at 815-756-5228.
Avocado…the trickiest food to prepare, the key ingredient in guacamole, and the reason millennials aren’t able to afford to buy houses.
I love avocados. I didn’t when I was younger, but something changed in me. I grew older. I grew wiser. I grew avocado-ier. Now, I want avocados on everything. Avocados in my smoothies. Avocados on my toast. Avocado on my omelettes. Avocado everywhere.
I know avocados are pretty expensive. They are a hassle to cut and difficult to store. They have to be shipped to Illinois from thousands of miles away, meaning they may be a green choice but they aren’t a GREEN choice. I know older generations often look down on my generation for our avocado love.
But the thing is, I still love them. I feel good when I eat avocados. They make me happy. And isn’t that what self-care is all about? Doing things that you love that make you feel healthy? Doing things that remind you of the good in the world? It may seem silly, but when I’m having a bad day, I remember that I live in a world where I can eat avocados and suddenly life feels just a little bit more okay. And that’s no small thing.
What do you love? What brings you joy and health and peace? What are the small things that you can do to care for your precious self? Don’t worry if other people don’t understand. Find your avocado and love it with all the fierceness of your powerful heart.
Mark your calendars and dig out your high heels! Safe Passage is once again hosting “Walk a Mile in Her Shoes!” An opportunity for our community to stand against sexual violence by putting yourself in the shoes of a sexual assault survivor for a mile walk in high heels!
April 14, 2018 at noon in DeKalb, IL with after party to follow at Fatty’s! More details to come!
Walk a Mile is a great opportunity for everyone, but especially men in our community to stand together and say that we will end our rape culture that allows sexual harassment and abuse to persist. Come join us for a fun and important event!